my love

"For husbands, this means love your wives, just as Christ loved the church. He gave up His life for her..." Ephesians 5:25

When I was younger, I remember dreaming about my future husband...
would he be loud? funny? shy?
would he love sports? fishing? books?
would he be tall? short? blonde?

But I never wondered if he would love me. In my mind, that seemed like a given- of course husbands always love their wives- that's what they do, right?

As time went on, I watched many marriages crumble around me. I saw husbands no longer love their wives. Marriage vows forsaken, I started to question if a sacrificial love was truly possible anymore.

Then true love walked into my life. In all my dreaming of the man I would some day marry, I could never have dreamed of someone so kind, steadfast, wise, and yes- LOVING.

My precious husband has showed me Christ's love. He has spent the past 5 years painting a beautiful picture of Christ and the church in the life that he lives with me.

His is a true love that gives more than it takes, is patient, kind and selfless... it's a jealous love without being jealous. And while I know he is proud of me as his wife, his love is never arrogant or rude. His is a love that never fails.

I am so blessed to have married you, Micah.
I can only pray that I can love you each day as wonderfully as you love me.

Happy birthday, honey. I love you!